Law of The Karmic Account – Dealing With A Difficult Relationship

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In my last post “Karma Keeps An Account?” I discussed how it is not right to blame Karma for any misfortune in our life and by taking care of our thoughts, words and deeds we can change our Karma to positive. I also mentioned about Karmic account. Now let’s see how this account affects us and how to settle this for good.

The Karmic account keeps a record of the positive and negative exchange of energy between two souls. If you know someone who is in a difficult relationship (personal or professional) and for some reason cannot escape it, a little knowledge of Law of Karma can come to the rescue.

Here I want to make it clear that I am not trying to solve or discuss about domestic violence or serious mental trauma situations. In such cases I insist to take proper professional help.

I do believe in the famous quote by Eleanor Roosevelt; “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

We have a special way to cope with the unpleasant relationships. We either;

1. Absorb the negative energy;

2. Withdraw self from the situation, or

3. Reflect back the negative energy,

All of the above mentioned three methods are unhealthy and it increases the bitterness in the relationship.

If we study the Law of Karma we understand a fourth method to transform the negative energy into positive and improve the relationship.

4. Transform negative energy to positive:

This may sound like a dream but it is possible and can be done with a lot of understanding and patience.

• When you face anything negative like blame or criticism and you know you are right on your part then keep calm and remind yourself that you are a powerful soul, a pure being, keep your cool

• The other person may not see your point or appreciate you now but will do so in time and even if that does not happen you are fine with it because you are at peace with yourself

• Never dwell upon hurtful remarks this only increases the pain. Instruct your mind to be calm.

• Detach yourself from the situation and study the reason for the dispute. It gets far clear when you see from a distance than being emotionally attached

• When you forgive and forget you reduce your own pain so take the high road whenever possible

• One needs a strong and powerful mind to stay calm in such situations or to forgive so meditation can be your best tool. Meditate daily and while or after meditation visualize being in a happy and loving relationship just as you desire

• Generate thoughts of love and peace for the person you want to improve your relationship with. If you send energy of love and peace you will get the same energy in return but as I mentioned earlier you will need a lot of patience

This is a lot of work, if you want to save the relationship it will all be worth it. On the other hand if you think you are done with the pain and cannot take it anymore. Then you will have to take a very serious, difficult and maybe permanent decision of moving on from that painful relationship and visualize yourself in a new loving relationship.

Again I will suggest Shakti Gawain’s Creative Visualizationfor proper guidance to manifest a loving relation or anything else you desire.

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Karma Keeps An Account?

Karma Keeps An Account?

Karma Keeps An Account?

Nowadays we hear about Karma everywhere. Most of the time in a negative way which I do not understand; Karma is a spiritual law. It is a law that causes all important aspects of our life. It is not much different from the law of gravity. We do not say anything bad about the law of gravity if we miss a step and fall down the staircase. We know it was our mistake as we were not careful on the steps. Then why we blame Karma, when we face bad consequences for a bad deed or word or even a thought.

Yes that is how Law of Karma works if we send out bad energy through thoughts, words or deeds it comes back to us in some or the other form. This is also known as cause and effect. Law of Karma is also mentioned with the phrase “as you sow so shall you reap.” or it can be explained in a scientific way by Newton’s 3rd Law; “To every action there is always an equal and opposite reaction: or the forces of two bodies on each other are always equal and are directed in opposite directions.”

Have you ever met someone for the first time and instantly felt a strong negative or positive emotion for that person. You felt; “I don’t know something about her makes me feel I cannot trust her.” Or “I think we can be great friends. Though I don’t know much about him, I think I will like him.”

You feel this strongly and soon get confirming proof about your feeling. How can you explain this? The answer is hidden in the Law of Karma. If you study the karmic account you will understand why you feel various emotions for different people.

A Karmic account is an account between two souls. This account keeps a record of the positive and negative exchange of energy between these two souls. Till this account is settled these souls will interact with each other even when they take birth in a new form and a new life.

Deepak Chopra has explained Karma beautifully in The Book of Secrets: Unlocking the Hidden Dimensions of Your Life
“Situations seem to happen to people, but in reality, they unfold from deeper karmic causes. The universe unfolds to itself, bringing to bear any cause that needs to be included. Don’t take this process personally. The working out of cause and effect is eternal. You are part of this rising and falling that never ends, and only by riding the wave can you ensure that the waves don’t drown you. The ego takes everything personally, leaving no room for higher guidance or purpose. If you can, realize that a cosmic plan is unfolding and appreciate the incredibly woven tapestry for what it is, a design of unparalleled marvel.”

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